Well, I always thought that my family had no issues, just living our peaceful comfortable life. But there was a catch.. When I used the word family, I meant those staying under the same roof as me. Of course it didn't include my 2 other sis whom were constantly overseas for studies or work or whatever shit I didn't care about. They were away for a good 8 years, I had a good I years of peaceful, quiet, only-child-like life. Well everything changed the day my eldest sis mentioned she was getting married.
Mom bugged me to faster apply leave to fly overseas for a week so I did. But not knowing the procedures I asked the wrong person to get me my leave. Drag drag drag, finally get my leave, yay thought with that, my trip to Japan in Aug is secured. Nooooo, life just loves to mess with me. Was out drinking one night, mom suddenly called and with a serious tone telling me there was issues with the Japan trip and inconvenient to talk over the phone. I was thinking Wtf? Nvm next day morning I asked her what was it about. Guess what? My sis already booked everything from flight to hotel and meals for my parents and not for me (this part I know and understand cause of my leave issue). What was fucked up is she complaining having to make changes to her booking for me is a hassle and I was told not to go. Errr seriously?
Skip to a few days later, today. Mom, dad, 2nd sis all came and talk to me about it, I flared exclaiming how is it my fault... You tell me take leave, I go take. Now you want me cancel cause eldest sis dw make changes to her bookings and thus dw me go. You know how fucked up was it on my side regarding the leave?! I had to constantly disturb my superior on it cause he keep never reply. Now you want me cancel it after going through so much trouble?
At night was when everything blew out of proportions. Started with my 2nd sis telling to be nice, ask my eldest sis directly to let me go jap to attend her wedding and trouble her to make changes to her bookings. Fine I be nice, own blood related sisters wedding. Msged her nicely, she just had to attitude and give me some guailan reply. Tahan.... I tahan and tried to explain the situation etc. She continued to attitude. Just to mention a few examples
- Why didn't I tell her I want to come to her wedding directly and was passed through my mom ; Well I only new of her wedding when my mom told me so naturally all info on my side went to her.
- I wanted to go Japan to attend her wedding or it's just an excuse for me to leave SG and NS for a week ; Erm how does my sis even come up with such things to say to me?
- She assumed that it would be impossible for me to get leave from NS and thus didn't bother to invite me ; THIS. COMING FROM MY OWN SISTER. CAN YOU EVEN IMAGINE?!
Well one thing for sure, I couldn't stand that attitude anymore and I didn't want to argue. I just showed my parents and my 2nd sis the entire convo between me and eldest sis, told them directly, screw her, I'm not begging to go my own sisters wedding, conclusion, I'm not going. Mom said something about my sis attitude to everyone even family members and I just replied, no way I'm going entertain nor accept that attitude she's giving.
To my eldest 'sis' whom I don't regard as a sister anymore. Dream on on receiving well wishes from me with regards to your wedding. I don't care even if my parents ask me to do so. Oh and fuck you too :)
